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So, I went to this Swingers Atlanta thing last night and I realized something about myself: stringent heterosexuality is a turn-off.
And then tonight I talked a bit with Bellaforte and BoyWonder, and realized something else: I think stringent homosexuality would be an equally large turn-off.
I like fluidity, in both sexuality and gender. I've always said "I like my girls to look like boys and my boys to look like girls", but having that point really driven home to me as I'm actively being not attracted to people of conventional gender and sexual orientations is pretty cool.
I guess there's a fair number of people that I'd actually rather not sleep with after all. (Hahahaha.)
And then tonight I talked a bit with Bellaforte and BoyWonder, and realized something else: I think stringent homosexuality would be an equally large turn-off.
I like fluidity, in both sexuality and gender. I've always said "I like my girls to look like boys and my boys to look like girls", but having that point really driven home to me as I'm actively being not attracted to people of conventional gender and sexual orientations is pretty cool.
I guess there's a fair number of people that I'd actually rather not sleep with after all. (Hahahaha.)